About

This blog is an examination of a phenomenon that I call "inter-orientation intimacy" which refers to straight men who have sexual experiences and relationships with gay/homosexual men. Several topics on this issue will be discussed all based on my experiences, analysis, and research into the matter.

Readers may also submit questions, comments, and feedback.

The opinions expressed on this blog are mine and mine alone.

Any advice given anywhere on this site or social media related to this site by me is solely based on my personal experiences and independent research and it is not considered "mainstream psychology/sexology." My advice is usually examples or hypotheticals that imply what I would do in a different situation. Some advice might work, some may not.  The reader is strongly encouraged to use common sense and I will not be held responsible for any damages that arise due to any reckless or illegal behavior. If you have serious sexual issues I suggest to instead talk to a mental health professional (that goes for both gay and straight guys) because I am not trained nor am I licensed to practice any type of therapy or psychological examination with anybody.

Visitors may use any and all content on this site free of charge for educational, personal, non-commercial use.

Comments. Readers are able to leave comments on all posts on this blog. I will not answer any questions via the comments thread. If you have any questions please go to the contact page. Comments will be monitored and any comments that I find hateful, stupid, harassing, libelous, fake, spamming, or annoying will be deleted without warning.

Content. Some content on this blog might be offensive and/or sensitive to certain people. I recommend you use your own personal discretion on what to read and see. If the thought of men have any sexual contact freaks you out, bothers you, or you find it "morally offensive," or goes against your philosophical, political, religious beliefs then this is not the blog for you. Please leave immediately as this site is about exploration, discussion, and examination of "inter-orientation intimacy" not a debate forum. I will not engage in any debate on the "morality" of homosexual conduct or behavior. There are other sites, forums, and blogs that are designed for that. If you hate homosexuality then I suggest you visit Peter LaBarbera's site here. Also, I am not here to debate the legitimacy of "inter-orientation intimacy" with gay activists who have adopted the mainstream Anglo-American view of male sexuality. And I will not debate with straight hot heads over this matter either. I am here to enlightened, educate, entertain and help people understand this phenomenon the best I can, not to argue. The fact is I.O.I is real and happens all the time, with a lot of men, in a lot of places. In the end it is up to the reader to decide.

Under no circumstances will I link to pornographic sites, pics or videos, nor will I be posting such content on this site. The site is appropriate for ages 13 and over. I will be discussing male-male sexual situations and topics though as politely as possible. Most of the stuff is safe for work or school environments being that most of the content will be text with some non-nude pics and videos of men. However given the subject matter of this site, if you are a straight man, a man who is struggling with his sexuality, or a closeted homosexual I would suggest to read this blog in a private setting and to erase your browser's history and cookies. Some people like to stick their nose where it doesn't belong and I understand that some straight men might be curious about this subject but are afraid of the stigma associated with it from society and family or even the gay community.

Posting. I will be posting periodically covering certain topics and issues related to I.O.I. I will also answer questions from readers as a post.

To gay activists. I support and work towards making the world a better place, especially for the LGBT community. Some of the activists of this community mean well, and equal rights is something all of us should support as men, as a community, as a nation and as human beings. But there will be gay activists who might disagree with my analysis and research regarding sexuality and sexual identity. These individuals have a political world view on human sexuality even though human sexuality, especially male sexuality, is somewhat complex yet I will try through this site to make it more simpler to understand. Politics is one thing, this site is another. And I think providing this alternative space for men regardless of sexual orientation, preference, or identity is something that is over due.